Here are the special "web notes" for my sermon. Here you will find quotes and textual references that did not fit on the pastor's page (And perhaps a few that did not come out of my mouth). At the end I will also include some recommended reading and books that influenced my thinking on this sermon. Please let me know if these were helpful to you. It takes some extra time and I am happy to do it if you benefit from it, but won't bother if they are of no use. Thanks and God Bless.
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"If we truly knew the value of suffering, we would ask the good God for it.” - Brother Andre
A widely held understanding of failure, suffering, and hardships is that these things are either not from God or a punishment for some kind of wrongdoing. Either way they are to be avoided at all costs and viewed as detrimental to our well being. However, when we get a greater understanding of the Gospel our view of it flips and we see that it can be, while still unpleasant, beautiful.
Here is a link of the Oprah or Osteen quiz.
Failure is to be EXPECTED
Dear friends, don't be surprised at the fiery trials you are going through, as if something strange were happening to you. Instead, be very glad--because these trials will make you partners with Christ in his suffering, and afterward you will have the wonderful joy of sharing his glory when it is displayed to all the world. (1 Peter 4:12-13, NLT)
"I have never thought that a Christian would be free of suffering. For out Lord suffered. And I have come to believe that He suffered, not to save us from suffering, but to teach us how to bear suffering. For He knew that there is no life without suffering." Alan Paton, in the novel, Cry The Beloved Country,
I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows. But take heart, because I have overcome the world." (John 16:33, NLT)
Failure is beautiful when…
…it SHAPES OUR CHARACTER
We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they are good for us--they help us learn to endure. And endurance develops strength of character in us, and character strengthens our confident expectation of salvation. (Romans 5:3-4, NLT)
23They say they serve Christ? I know I sound like a madman, but I have served him far more! I have worked harder, been put in jail more often, been whipped times without number, and faced death again and again. 24Five different times the Jews gave me thirty-nine lashes. 25Three times I was beaten with rods. Once I was stoned. Three times I was shipwrecked. Once I spent a whole night and a day adrift at sea. 26I have traveled many weary miles. I have faced danger from flooded rivers and from robbers. I have faced danger from my own people, the Jews, as well as from the Gentiles. I have faced danger in the cities, in the deserts, and on the stormy seas. And I have faced danger from men who claim to be Christians but are not. 27I have lived with weariness and pain and sleepless nights. Often I have been hungry and thirsty and have gone without food. Often I have shivered with cold, without enough clothing to keep me warm. 2 Cor 11, NLT
2Consider it horrible pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, 3because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. James 1:2-3, NIV, strikethrough added
"The truth is that if you asked me to choose between winning the Tour de France and cancer, I would choose cancer. Odd as it sounds, I would rather have the title of cancer survivor than winner of the tour, because of what it has done for me as a human being, a man, a husband, a son, and a father……We have unrealized capacities that sometimes only emerge in crisis. So if there is a purpose to the suffering that is cancer, I think it must be this: it’s meant to improve us." Lance Armstrong
"What doesn’t destroy me makes me stronger." John Perkins
"Character can not be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, ambition inspired, and success achieved." Helen Keller
… OUR NEED DRAWS US TO JESUS
When Jesus had again crossed over by boat to the other side of the lake, a large crowd gathered around him while he was by the lake. Then one of the synagogue rulers, named Jairus, came there. Seeing Jesus, he fell at his feet and pleaded earnestly with him, "My little daughter is dying. Please come and put your hands on her so that she will be healed and live." (Mark 5:21-23, NIV)
"The Christian has a great advantage over other men, not by being less fallen than they, nor less doomed to live in a fallen world, but by knowing that he is a fallen man in a fallen world." C. S. Lewis
"The Bible was written in tears and to tears it yields its best treasures." A. W. Tozer
"…good was not merely a tool to be used, but a relic to be guarded, like the good from Crusoe’s ship – even that had been the wild whisper of something originally wise, for, according to Christianity, we were indeed the survivors of a wreck, the crew of a golden ship that had gone down before the beginning of the world....But the important matter was this, that it entirely reversed the reason for optimism. And the instant the reversal was made if felt like the abrupt ease when a bone is put back into the socket. I had often called myself an optimist, to avoid the too evident blasphemy of pessimism. But all the optimism of the age had been false and disheartening for this reason, that it had always been trying to prove that we fit in to the world. The Christian optimism is based on the fact that we do not fit in to the world." G. K. Chesterson
"You people in the sunshine may believe in faith, but we in the shadow MUST believe it. We have nothing else." An unnamed Scottish preacher as quoted in Reaching for the Invisible God, pp 61 (If you are not familiar with Phillip Yancey you can follow this link to his column archive in Christianity Today. He is one of my favorite writers.)
…it UNITES US WITH CHRIST
I want to know Christ and the power of his resurrection and the fellowship of sharing in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death… (Philippians 3:10, NIV)
"If Lewis had lived the cloistered existence of a bachelor don, his writing would have suffered from a loss of warmth, humanity, and the understanding of pain and suffering." Sawyer goes on to argue that the brilliance of the Narnia series was not in spite of the suffering he was surrounded by but because of it." George Saywer on C. S. Lewis and his life during the time frame he wrote the Narnia series
"We are not here to prove God answers prayers; we are here to be living monuments of God’s grace." Oswald Chambers
"Not all wounds are healed but all wounds can be healing." (This is my paraphrase of a statment made by Mark Buchanan in the book listed below.)
CLOSE
You know for yourselves that we're not much to look at. We've been surrounded and battered by troubles, but we're not demoralized; we're not sure what to do, but we know that God knows what to do; we've been spiritually terrorized, but God hasn't left our side; we've been thrown down, but we haven't broken. What they did to Jesus, they do to us—trial and torture, mockery and murder; what Jesus did among them, he does in us—he lives! Our lives are at constant risk for Jesus' sake, which makes Jesus' life all the more evident in us. While we're going through the worst, you're getting in on the best! … So we're not giving up. How could we! Even though on the outside it often looks like things are falling apart on us, on the inside, where God is making new life, not a day goes by without his unfolding grace. These hard times are small potatoes compared to the coming good times, the lavish celebration prepared for us. There's far more here than meets the eye. The things we see now are here today, gone tomorrow. But the things we can't see now will last forever. - 2 Corinthians 4:8-10, 16-18, The Message
A CREED FOR THOSE WHO HAVE SUFFERED:
I asked God for strength, that I might achieve.
I was made weak, that I might learn to humbly obey...
I asked for health, that I might do greater things.
I was given infirmity, that I might do better things...
I asked for riches, that I might be happy.
I was given poverty, that I might be wise...
I asked for power, that I might have the praise of men.
I was given weakness, that I might feel the need of God...
I asked for all things, that I might enjoy life.
I was given life, that I might enjoy all things...
I got nothing I asked for - but everything I had hoped for.
Almost despite myself, my unspoken prayers were answered.
I am, among men, most richly blessed!
by Roy Campanella
RECOMMENDED BOOKS
(Full disclosure - if you purchase these books via the links provided I would receive a small commission. If you buy them through Amazon, Christianbooks.com, or a traditional bookstore and are blessed that is great as I see it.


Your God is Too Safe


Authentic Faith: The Power of a Fire-Tested Life


Reaching for the Invisible God